![]() ![]() Guess what? Nobody is exempt from this mindset. This schoolmate of mine most likely has what’s termed by psychologists and scientists as the victim’s mindset. A lot of my classmates have testified that she doesn’t trust anyone, and often ghosts friends. This is not the first time she had actually done that. In short, this woman ghosted this friend of mine for no apparent reason. And then all of a sudden, she stopped taking his phone calls, and stopped replying to text messages. Both their families would go out for picnics and dinners. Recently, I met another school friend and he shared that he was hanging out with her and her husband for a good couple of months. After school, some of the girls in our team including myself managed to keep in touch with her via social media. During volleyball practice, we realized that if she made a mistake in like passing the ball or serving etc, she would find a way to blame it on someone. Some days she would be super sweet with me, and we would talk for hours or practice volleyball together, other days she was just aloof. I managed to be friends with her, but she was never consistent. She had difficulty keeping friends for a long time, she often kept to herself, and each time she was offered help by well-meaning people, she either refused or fought with them. ![]() In my high school, one of my classmates was notorious for being moody. ![]()
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